Have you found that in high school...?

Life is full of this. Even if you had a job in an office full of other people you will see small "cliques" just like in HS. Older women like hens picking on you ..... so you need to develop a tough skin and learn that in life there are mean people out there. It's not a perfect world and it would be nice if we all got along. Forget trying to establish a loving long lasting relationship in your early years, even early 20's. That is time to focus on YOU in life and getting yourself established with a job or career. Men will tend to be players during this time and if you wake up to that now....it will help you alot.